1. Conflict does not mean a relationship is over. This one is huge for me. I have recently lost someone very dear to me because of conflict. Just because something has come in between a relationship, does not mean it's done. If so, then that means you don't really care about the relationship to begin with.
2. Let's don't take on the Mennonite view of conflict. Shunning. If there is a conflict, address it.
3. If there is a conflict, address the person who the conflict is with. Don't go to other people and try to pursuade them to 'your side'.
4. Move on. Once the spiffle is resolved, let it be resolved. Over. Done with. Gone.
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